Category Lifestyle

Faith can make us uncomfortable, but it’s a necessity in order that we may mature…

Faith, it’s such a scary concept. Walking off into the unknown makes us cringe and uncomfortable. And though it’s not the most ideal avenue to take faith is the best thing that can ever happen to us. It requires us to trust in someone who’s wiser and mightier than us. It forces us to be […]

31 Days of Transformation 

“When you’re sick and tired of being sick and tired they’ll be nothing anyone can say or do to you to keep you where you are”, in the paraphrased words of my lovely mother.  There’s been so much commotion going on in my life. It appears that after every mountain there’s another one over the […]

Have You Forgiven You?

Forgiveness, it’s a melody that’s been prancing around me and a tune I’ve been humming for the past week. The song goes a little something like this: “Show me how to love the unlovable Show me how to reach the unreachable Help me now to do the impossible Forgiveness, forgiveness Help me now to do […]

Are You Becoming What You’re Asking for in a Partner?

And there he was scribbled in between the lines of my notebook. He was perfect and fitting in every way. Besides remarkably handsome and intelligent, his character and core values were most attention worthy. With my mind made up and a wish list in my hand I took my list to Lord in prayer and instantly I […]

What’s Your 10 Empowering Affirmations?

Hello lovely people! I know it’s been awhile, BUT here I am and I’m here with a challenge that was presented to me. I challenge you to create 10 empowering affirmations. Yes! Empowering, cloud 9, can’t come down messages about/to yourself! Too often we fill ourselves with doubts and lies about who we aren’t and […]

For His Purposes Only: Waiting to Date Follow Up

It’s been two months since Why I Prefer to Wait to Date Part One and for good reasons. An intense desire to grasp a deeper understanding behind the wait I committed to overwhelmed me. I had acknowledged my past hurts and failures, but that wasn’t enough. I had forgiven and moved forward from those experiences, […]

Am I “Doin the Most” When it Comes to Setting Relationship Boundaries?

Last week I had a conversation with a friend about setting boundaries while dating. She mentioned that she was okay with making out as long as their intimacy did not exceed first base. When I told her kissing wasn’t an option for me she was surprised. “Oh my gosh, really?  Girl you’re better than me cause […]